The short explanation
Sleep and mood affect each other in both directions, so it is often hard to say which came first. Waking very early and being unable to fall back asleep is common in depression and anxiety, and poor sleep in turn makes people more irritable, low and anxious. Six months of this is long enough to discuss with a doctor. The good news is that treating one often helps the other. Talking therapy for insomnia, known as cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia, is effective and avoids depending on sleeping tablets. A doctor can also look at mood and any physical causes.
What depends on your situation
The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.
- In the forties, perimenopause can cause night sweats and early waking. Thyroid problems, pain, needing to pass urine at night, snoring with breathing pauses, and late caffeine are other possible contributors.
- Worries about children, ageing parents or money often surface at night. Writing them down before bed and keeping the same wake time each day can help some women.
- Sleeping tablets bought without a prescription can be habit-forming and are best discussed with a doctor first.
What this answer cannot determine
The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.
- This answer cannot tell whether your early waking is from mood, anxiety, menopause or another cause. A clinician needs to ask about your sleep, mood and health to work that out.
Questions for your clinician
Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.
- Could my early waking be a sign of depression or anxiety?
- Could perimenopause or thyroid be part of this?
- Can I get cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia?
- What should I avoid in the evening?
When to seek help
Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.
Emergency — call 112 now
- Call 112 or go to the nearest emergency department if you have thoughts of ending your life, have harmed yourself, or feel you cannot keep yourself safe right now.
Book an appointment soon
- See a doctor within a few days if poor sleep is making you feel hopeless or unable to work safely. You can also call Tele-MANAS on 14416, the free national mental-health helpline, which answers in many Indian languages.
Raise it at a routine appointment
- Book a routine appointment to talk about sleep and mood together.
Sources
The evidence this explanation is built on.
- Insomnia MedlinePlus (US National Library of Medicine)
- Insomnia NHS
- Depression in adults NHS
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