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Working in IT, late night calls with US team, weekends also laptop open. Now I feel exhausted, irritated with everyone and nothing gives satisfaction. Is this burnout or depression?

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The short explanation

Burnout and depression share a lot: exhaustion, irritability, feeling detached and getting little satisfaction from things. Burnout is usually tied to work, so the feelings ease on leave or weekends and are mostly about the job. Depression tends to spread into everything, including time off, hobbies and relationships, and may come with hopelessness, guilt or changes in sleep and appetite. The two can overlap, and long-running burnout can slide into depression. Either way, what you describe is worth taking seriously. A doctor or counsellor can help sort out which it is closer to and what will help.

What depends on your situation

The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.

  • Shift work and late-night calls disturb sleep rhythm, which on its own can lower mood and patience. How many hours you actually sleep is worth tracking.
  • Practical changes, such as protected time off, setting limits on after-hours work, and talking to a manager or HR, can help burnout. They may not be enough if depression has set in.
  • Many Indian employers have an employee assistance programme with free confidential counselling. Check your HR policy.

What this answer cannot determine

The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.

  • This answer cannot tell whether you have burnout, depression or both. A clinician who talks with you about your mood, sleep and work can judge that.

Questions for your clinician

Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.

  1. Does what I describe sound more like burnout or depression?
  2. How is my sleep schedule affecting my mood?
  3. Can you refer me to a counsellor, or does my company scheme cover this?
  4. What should I ask my employer for?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Emergency — call 112 now

  • Call 112 or go to the nearest emergency department if you have thoughts of ending your life, have harmed yourself, or feel you cannot keep yourself safe right now.

Book an appointment soon

  • See a doctor within a few days if you are not sleeping, are drinking more to cope, or feel hopeless. You can also call Tele-MANAS on 14416, the free national mental-health helpline, which answers in many Indian languages.

Raise it at a routine appointment

  • Book a routine appointment to talk about stress and mood if it has gone on for more than a few weeks.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Stress MedlinePlus (NIH)
  2. Depression MedlinePlus (NIH)
  3. Depression in adults NHS

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