The short explanation
Feeling nervous before a presentation is normal. When the fear of being judged is intense, starts days before, causes shaking, a trembling voice, blushing or a racing heart, and makes you avoid classes or social situations, it may be social anxiety. It is common among college students and treatable. Cognitive behavioural therapy is effective for social anxiety. It helps you notice the thoughts that drive fear, and gradually practise situations you have been avoiding. Practical steps like rehearsing, slow breathing and focusing on the message rather than yourself can also help.
What depends on your situation
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- What matters is how much the fear affects your studies and social life, whether you avoid presentations, interviews or meeting new people, and whether you also feel low.
- Some students use alcohol to manage social fear, which can make things worse over time.
- Many colleges have a counsellor who can help, often free and confidential.
What this answer cannot determine
The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.
- This answer cannot diagnose social anxiety. A counsellor or doctor who talks with you can assess what is happening.
Questions for your clinician
Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.
- Does what I feel sound like social anxiety?
- Can I get cognitive behavioural therapy?
- What can I do before a presentation to manage shaking?
- Is the college counselling service confidential?
When to seek help
Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.
Emergency — call 112 now
- Call 112 or go to the nearest emergency department if you have thoughts of ending your life, have harmed yourself, or feel you cannot keep yourself safe right now.
Book an appointment soon
- See the college counsellor or a doctor within a few days if fear is making you miss classes. You can also call Tele-MANAS on 14416, the free national mental-health helpline, which answers in many Indian languages.
Raise it at a routine appointment
- Book a routine counselling appointment to work on social anxiety.
Sources
The evidence this explanation is built on.
- Anxiety MedlinePlus (NIH)
- Generalised anxiety disorder in adults NHS
- Mental health MedlinePlus (NIH)
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