The short explanation
Sex determination of a baby before birth is illegal everywhere in India, including private clinics in other cities. Under the PCPNDT Act, the clinic, the doctor and the family members who seek it can all face legal action. Clinics that offer it are breaking the law, and many have been closed and prosecuted. Apart from the law, such clinics often work without proper standards, and the pressure around the baby's sex can lead to unsafe and illegal attempts to end a pregnancy, which are a serious danger to the woman's health and life. Your pregnancy care and your baby's value do not depend on whether it is a girl or a boy.
What depends on your situation
The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.
- If you feel pressured, you can tell your antenatal doctor, who can speak to your family about the law.
- If you are threatened, harmed or forced to go somewhere against your will, that is abuse. The women's helpline 181 and police can help, and 112 works in emergencies.
- Complaints about clinics offering sex determination can be made to the district PCPNDT authority.
- It may help to have your husband or another trusted relative support you in refusing.
What this answer cannot determine
The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.
- This cannot give legal advice or tell you how to handle your family. A counsellor, lawyer or women's helpline can help with your situation.
Questions for your clinician
Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.
- Can you explain the law to my mother-in-law?
- Is there a counsellor who can help with family pressure?
- Where can I get help if I am forced against my will?
- What are my remaining antenatal checks?
When to seek help
Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.
Emergency — call 112 now
- Call 112 if you are in danger, being forced to travel or end a pregnancy, or if you have heavy bleeding or severe pain after any procedure.
Book an appointment soon
- See your doctor or a counsellor within a few days if you are under pressure.
Raise it at a routine appointment
- Continue routine antenatal care at your usual hospital.
Sources
The evidence this explanation is built on.
- Prenatal care MedlinePlus (NIH)
- Pregnancy MedlinePlus (NIH)
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