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My mother is 72. She sleeps at 8 pm and is up by 3 am, then roams around the house. Is this normal for her age?

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The short explanation

Going to sleep early and waking very early is common in older adults, because the body clock tends to shift earlier with age. If she feels rested and is well during the day, this pattern on its own may simply reflect ageing. However, wandering at night, confusion, or changes in behaviour can be signs of other problems, such as memory changes, depression, pain, urinary problems or medicine side effects. It may help to keep her active during the day, get outdoor light in the late afternoon, and delay bedtime a little. If she seems confused, unusually forgetful or unsafe at night, a doctor should assess her.

What depends on your situation

The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.

  • Some medicines can disturb sleep or cause confusion in older adults.
  • Wandering at night can lead to falls. Night lights, clear walkways and secure doors can help.
  • Caring for an older parent can be tiring for you too; seek support from other family members.

What this answer cannot determine

The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.

  • This cannot tell you whether something more than ageing is affecting her sleep. A doctor can check her memory, mood and medicines.

Questions for your clinician

Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.

  1. Is her sleep pattern normal for her age?
  2. Could her medicines affect her sleep or cause confusion?
  3. Should her memory be checked?
  4. How can we make the house safer at night?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Emergency — call 112 now

  • Call 112 if she becomes suddenly very confused, has a fall with injury, or develops weakness on one side or slurred speech.

Get help the same day

  • Get care the same day if confusion appears suddenly or she has fever or pain passing urine.

Raise it at a routine appointment

  • Book a routine appointment to discuss her sleep and any memory changes.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Sleep disorders MedlinePlus (NIH)
  2. Insomnia NHS
  3. Insomnia MedlinePlus (US National Library of Medicine)

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