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My mother had restless legs and now I also get it in the evenings. Does it run in families and will it get worse?

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The short explanation

Restless legs syndrome often runs in families, especially when it starts before middle age. It causes an uncomfortable urge to move the legs, usually in the evening or at night, which eases with movement. For some people it stays mild for years; for others it can gradually become more noticeable. It is hard to predict for any one person. There are things that help. Checking iron levels is important, because low iron stores can worsen symptoms. Regular moderate exercise, stretching, massage, warm baths, and avoiding caffeine, alcohol and smoking may ease symptoms. Some medicines, such as certain antidepressants, antihistamines and anti-nausea drugs, can make restless legs worse, so tell your doctor what you take. If symptoms affect your sleep a lot, there are treatments a doctor can discuss.

What depends on your situation

The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.

  • Restless legs can also be linked with kidney disease, diabetes, nerve problems and pregnancy.
  • Keeping a note of when symptoms happen and what helps can be useful for your doctor.
  • Poor sleep from restless legs can affect mood and energy.

What this answer cannot determine

The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.

  • This cannot tell you whether you have restless legs syndrome or how it will progress. A doctor can assess you and check your iron.

Questions for your clinician

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  1. Could this be restless legs syndrome?
  2. Can we check my ferritin?
  3. Could any of my medicines be making it worse?
  4. What treatments are available if it affects my sleep?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Book an appointment soon

  • See a doctor within a few days if you have leg weakness, numbness or one swollen, painful leg.

Raise it at a routine appointment

  • Book a routine appointment to discuss your symptoms and tests.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Restless legs syndrome NHS
  2. Restless legs MedlinePlus (US National Library of Medicine)
  3. Iron deficiency anaemia NHS

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