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best time to have intercourse to get pregnant with irregular periods

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The short explanation

With irregular periods, it is harder to predict ovulation by counting days, because ovulation may happen at different times each cycle or sometimes not at all. The most practical approach is to have sex every two to three days throughout the cycle, so you do not need to predict ovulation. Watching for fertile signs, such as clear, slippery, stretchy discharge, can help you notice when ovulation may be near. Ovulation test strips can be harder to interpret with irregular cycles.

What depends on your situation

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  • Irregular periods can have many causes, including PCOS, thyroid problems, weight change, stress and approaching menopause.
  • If your cycles are often longer than about five weeks or very unpredictable, it is worth seeing a doctor soon rather than waiting a year, because irregular ovulation can often be helped.
  • A doctor may suggest blood tests and a scan, and sometimes follicle scans to track ovulation.

What this answer cannot determine

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  • This answer cannot tell whether or when you ovulate. Tests arranged by a doctor are needed.

Questions for your clinician

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  1. What might be causing my irregular cycles?
  2. Am I ovulating, and how can we check?
  3. Is there treatment to make ovulation more regular?
  4. How long should we try before considering more help?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Book an appointment soon

  • See a doctor within a few days if you have a positive test with pain or bleeding.

Raise it at a routine appointment

  • Book a routine visit soon if your periods are irregular and you are trying to conceive.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) NHS
  2. Infertility NHS
  3. Polycystic ovary syndrome World Health Organization

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