The short explanation
Please do not stop your antidepressants without speaking to your doctor first, as stopping suddenly can cause withdrawal effects and your mood may return. Sexual side effects, including reduced arousal, dryness, lower desire and difficulty reaching orgasm, are common with some antidepressants. They are worth discussing, because there are often ways to help. Your doctor may suggest options such as adjusting the treatment, switching to a different medicine with fewer sexual side effects, or other approaches. Meanwhile, a water-based or silicone-based lubricant and more time on foreplay can help with dryness.
What depends on your situation
The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.
- Depression itself can lower desire, so it can be hard to know which is the cause. Your doctor can help sort this out.
- Tell your doctor openly; they hear about sexual side effects often and will not be embarrassed.
- If you have pain, itching or discharge, that may be a separate problem such as an infection.
What this answer cannot determine
The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.
- This answer cannot tell whether your medicine should be changed. Your doctor can review your treatment.
Questions for your clinician
Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.
- Could my antidepressant be causing these sexual side effects?
- Are there options to reduce them?
- Is it safe to change or switch medicine?
- Which lubricants are suitable?
When to seek help
Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.
Emergency — call 112 now
- Call 112 or go to the nearest emergency department if you have thoughts of harming yourself.
Book an appointment soon
- See your doctor within a few days to discuss side effects before making any change.
Raise it at a routine appointment
- Book a routine follow-up to review your treatment and side effects.
Sources
The evidence this explanation is built on.
- Vaginal dryness NHS
- Vaginismus NHS
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