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Our first IVF cycle failed. I keep thinking I did something wrong by climbing stairs and going to office after transfer. Could my activity have caused it?

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The short explanation

No, normal daily activity such as climbing stairs, walking or going to work does not cause an embryo transfer to fail. Studies have not found that bed rest after transfer improves results, and the embryo cannot fall out with movement. Most failed cycles are due to factors beyond anyone's control, especially the embryo's chromosomes. It is very common to search for something you did. Please be gentle with yourself.

What depends on your situation

The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.

  • The chance of success per cycle depends mostly on age and embryo quality. Even with good embryos, many cycles do not result in pregnancy, which is why several cycles are sometimes needed.
  • A review appointment can go through how the ovaries responded, how many eggs and embryos developed, and whether any changes might help next time.
  • Feelings after a failed cycle can be intense. A counsellor, many of whom work with IVF clinics, can help both partners.

What this answer cannot determine

The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.

  • This answer cannot tell why your cycle did not work. Your clinic can explain what they saw.

Questions for your clinician

Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.

  1. What do you think was the main reason the cycle did not work?
  2. Would you change anything in the next cycle?
  3. How many frozen embryos do we have, if any?
  4. Is there counselling support available?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Emergency — call 112 now

  • Call 112 or go to the nearest emergency department if, during or after fertility treatment, you have severe belly pain or swelling, trouble breathing, or you pass very little urine.

Book an appointment soon

  • See a doctor within a few days if you have heavy bleeding or pain that is not settling.

Raise it at a routine appointment

  • Book a routine review appointment before deciding on another cycle.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Infertility NHS
  2. Infertility World Health Organization
  3. Infertility MedlinePlus (NIH)

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