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My mother is 65. She gets breathless when lying flat at night and now sleeps with two-three pillows. Is it heart related?

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The short explanation

Breathlessness when lying flat that improves when propped up on pillows can be a sign of heart failure, where the heart is not pumping as well as it should and fluid builds up in the lungs. It can also come from lung problems, severe reflux or being very overweight. This pattern should be checked by a doctor soon. They will examine her, listen to her heart and lungs, and may order an ECG, chest X-ray, blood tests and an echocardiogram to see how well the heart is working.

What depends on your situation

The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.

  • Other signs of heart-related fluid build-up include swollen ankles, waking suddenly at night gasping for breath, weight gain over a few days, and tiredness.
  • High blood pressure, previous heart attack, diabetes, valve problems and irregular heartbeat raise the chance of heart failure.
  • Keep a note of how many pillows she needs, whether her ankles swell and whether she has gained weight, and bring her medicine list.

What this answer cannot determine

The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.

  • This answer cannot tell what is causing her breathlessness. That needs an examination and tests.

Questions for your clinician

Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.

  1. Could her breathlessness at night be from the heart?
  2. Does she need an echocardiogram?
  3. Should her medicines be reviewed?
  4. Which changes mean we should come back urgently?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Emergency — call 112 now

  • Call 112 if she becomes very breathless at rest, has chest pain, blue lips, coughs up pink frothy sputum, or becomes confused or drowsy.

Get help the same day

  • Get same-day care if she wakes up gasping for breath or her ankles are rapidly swelling.

Book an appointment soon

  • See a doctor within a few days if needing more pillows has developed gradually.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Coronary heart disease NHS
  2. Heart disease in women MedlinePlus (US National Library of Medicine)
  3. Cardiovascular diseases (CVDs) World Health Organization

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