The short explanation
No, please take her for care today. A swollen wrist that looks bent or deformed after a fall on an outstretched hand very often means a broken wrist, which is one of the most common fractures in older women. Massaging with oil or tying a bandage at home will not set the bone correctly and can cause more swelling or damage. Doctors need to do an X-ray and may need to straighten the bone and put on a plaster, or sometimes do surgery, so that the wrist heals in the right position and she can use her hand well again.
What depends on your situation
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- A wrist fracture after a simple fall in an older woman can be a sign of thinning bones. After treatment, ask about a bone health check to prevent future fractures, especially of the hip.
- While going to hospital, keep her hand raised and supported in a sling made of cloth, remove rings and bangles before swelling increases, and avoid moving the wrist.
- Traditional bone setters are widely used, but they cannot do X-rays, and poorly set fractures can lead to long-term stiffness and pain.
What this answer cannot determine
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- This answer cannot tell whether her wrist is broken. Only an examination and X-ray can do that.
Questions for your clinician
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- Is the wrist broken, and how will it be treated?
- How long will she need a plaster, and what follow-up is needed?
- Will she need physiotherapy afterwards?
- Should her bones be checked for osteoporosis?
When to seek help
Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.
Emergency — call 112 now
- Call 112 or go to the nearest emergency department if her hand becomes cold, pale or numb, the bone is through the skin, or she hit her head and is drowsy.
Get help the same day
- Get care the same day for a swollen or deformed wrist after a fall.
Sources
The evidence this explanation is built on.
- Osteoporosis MedlinePlus (US National Library of Medicine)
- Osteoporosis NHS
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