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My daughter is 20, in college hostel. She has lost lot of weight in two months, always thirsty and tired. Should we worry?

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The short explanation

Yes, she should see a doctor soon. Rapid weight loss together with constant thirst and tiredness in a young adult can be signs of high blood sugar, including type 1 diabetes, which can come on quickly at this age. Other possible causes include an overactive thyroid, infections, stress, or an eating disorder. A simple blood sugar test can quickly check for diabetes. If her sugar is high, early treatment is important, because untreated type 1 diabetes can lead to a dangerous condition called diabetic ketoacidosis. Please do not wait for her next holiday visit if she is unwell.

What depends on your situation

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  • Ask whether she is also passing urine often, especially at night, has blurred vision, or feels unusually weak.
  • Hostel life, exams and irregular meals can affect weight, but these symptoms together need checking.
  • If she is worried about her weight or body image, approach the topic gently and without blame.

What this answer cannot determine

The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.

  • This cannot tell you why your daughter is losing weight. She needs a doctor's assessment and blood tests.

Questions for your clinician

Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.

  1. Can her blood sugar be checked today?
  2. Should her thyroid be tested too?
  3. Could stress or eating habits be involved?
  4. What follow-up does she need?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Emergency — call 112 now

  • Call 112 if she becomes very drowsy, confused, has deep fast breathing, persistent vomiting or severe stomach pain.

Get help the same day

  • Get her seen the same day for a sugar test if she is very thirsty, tired and losing weight.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Weight loss — unintentional MedlinePlus (US National Library of Medicine)
  2. Unintentional weight loss NHS
  3. Type 2 diabetes — symptoms NHS

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