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My 72 year old mother has had loose motions since yesterday and now seems drowsy and is not eating. What should we do?

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The short explanation

Please get her seen by a doctor today, and call 112 if she is very drowsy or difficult to wake. Older adults can become dehydrated quickly with diarrhoea, and drowsiness, poor intake and weakness are warning signs that she may be losing more fluid than she is taking in. Dehydration can affect the kidneys, blood pressure and thinking. While arranging care, give her small, frequent sips of ORS or other fluids if she is awake enough to swallow safely. Do not force fluids if she is too drowsy. In hospital, doctors can check her blood pressure, kidney function and salts, give fluids through a drip if needed, and look for the cause.

What depends on your situation

The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.

  • Diuretics, blood pressure medicines and diabetes medicines may need adjusting during diarrhoea; take her medicine list.
  • Infection, medicines, recent antibiotics and other illnesses can cause diarrhoea in older adults.
  • Passing very little urine, dry mouth, dizziness on standing and confusion are signs of dehydration.

What this answer cannot determine

The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.

  • This cannot tell you how dehydrated your mother is or what is causing her diarrhoea. She needs to be examined.

Questions for your clinician

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  1. Is she dehydrated, and does she need fluids through a drip?
  2. What is causing her diarrhoea?
  3. Should any of her medicines be paused?
  4. How can we prevent this in future?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Emergency — call 112 now

  • Call 112 or take her to emergency now if she is very drowsy, confused, faints or has stopped passing urine.

Get help the same day

  • Get her seen by a doctor today even if she seems to improve.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Stomach ache NHS
  2. Abdominal pain MedlinePlus (US National Library of Medicine)
  3. Indigestion NHS

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