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I am 46, periods were like clockwork, now sometimes 3 weeks gap, sometimes 2 months gap. Is this menopause starting?

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The short explanation

It may well be. The years before periods stop completely are called perimenopause, and they often begin in the mid-forties. As the ovaries release eggs less regularly, cycles commonly become shorter, longer or unpredictable, and some months are skipped. Other symptoms can include hot flushes, night sweats, poor sleep and mood changes. Perimenopause is a natural stage, but changing cycles in your forties can also be due to thyroid problems, fibroids, polyps or, less often, changes in the womb lining. So it is still sensible to tell a doctor, especially if bleeding is very heavy, happens between periods or after sex.

What depends on your situation

The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.

  • Blood tests are not always needed to recognise perimenopause in a woman in her forties, because hormone levels go up and down. A doctor may still check thyroid and blood count.
  • Pregnancy is still possible during perimenopause. If you do not want to become pregnant, contraception is usually advised until periods have stopped for a year or more, depending on age.
  • There are treatments for troublesome symptoms like hot flushes or heavy periods if they affect your life.

What this answer cannot determine

The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.

  • This answer cannot confirm that you are in perimenopause. A doctor needs to hear your full history and may suggest tests to rule out other causes.

Questions for your clinician

Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.

  1. Do my changing cycles fit perimenopause?
  2. Should my thyroid or blood count be checked?
  3. Do I still need contraception, and for how long?
  4. Which bleeding changes should make me come back sooner?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Get help the same day

  • Get care the same day if bleeding becomes very heavy with dizziness or weakness.

Book an appointment soon

  • See a doctor within a couple of weeks if you have bleeding between periods or after sex.

Raise it at a routine appointment

  • Book a routine appointment to discuss your changing cycles and any symptoms such as hot flushes or poor sleep.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Irregular periods NHS
  2. Stopped or missed periods NHS

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