Skip to content
Sign in

I am 43 and my periods are getting irregular. Do I still need contraception, and which methods are suitable at my age?

An AskHer answer: what is known, what depends on you, and what only a clinician can decide.

Nobody asked this one. AskHer’s editorial team wrote the question to open the topic. It is not anyone’s submission, and nobody’s own words are in it.

Written with AI assistance — not yet reviewed by a person Version 1 · Not yet reviewed by a person · English

The short explanation

Yes, you still need contraception. Although fertility declines in the forties, pregnancy is still possible until menopause, and irregular periods make it harder to know when you might ovulate. Doctors usually advise continuing contraception until you have had no periods for one year if you are over 50, or two years if under 50. Many methods are suitable at your age. The hormonal IUD is popular because it is very effective and can also make periods lighter, which helps if periods are heavy in perimenopause. The Copper T, implant, progestogen-only pill and condoms are also options. The combined pill may be suitable for some healthy non-smokers but is often avoided over 35 in smokers or those with high blood pressure or migraine with aura.

What depends on your situation

The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.

  • Some methods can mask menopause symptoms or the end of periods, so your doctor may advise on when and how to stop.
  • Sterilisation for you or vasectomy for your partner are also options.
  • Any bleeding after sex or between periods should be checked.

What this answer cannot determine

The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.

  • This answer cannot tell which method suits you. A doctor can advise based on your health and periods.

Questions for your clinician

Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.

  1. How long do I need to continue contraception?
  2. Which methods suit me in my forties?
  3. Would a hormonal IUD help with my periods?
  4. How will I know when I have reached menopause?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Book an appointment soon

  • See a doctor within a couple of weeks if you have bleeding between periods or after sex.

Raise it at a routine appointment

  • Book a routine appointment to review contraception in perimenopause.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Contraception NHS
  2. Intrauterine device (IUD) NHS
  3. Progestogen-only pill NHS

Who wrote and reviewed this

Every AskHer answer names its author. A clinically reviewed answer also names the clinician who signed it off — if no clinician is named below, it has not been clinically reviewed.

Author
AskHer Editorial (AI-assisted draft) AskHer's editorial team — not an individual clinician Works in English, தமிழ், हिन्दी
Clinical reviewer
Nobody yet No clinician has signed this answer off, and no person on the editorial team has read it yet. That is what the “Written with AI assistance” label means. It is queued for an editor to read, and then for a clinician who works in this area. The sources it was drafted against are listed above.
Review status
Written with AI assistance — not yet reviewed by a person
Last reviewed
Not yet reviewed by a person
Version
1

Correction history

Substantive changes are listed, not quietly edited away.

No corrections have been made since this answer was first published.

Did this answer your question?

Whatever you choose is filed against this version of the answer, never against you, and it is never shown as a count.

Explain more simply My question is different

“Explain more simply” asks you which part was hard to follow, so the author knows what to rewrite. “My question is different” opens a private follow-up with this answer attached.


Saving, following up and reporting are all private. Nothing you do on this page is visible to other readers or to the doctor who wrote it, unless you ask a question.