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During sex the condom came off and I think it is still inside me. I tried but could not reach it. I am embarrassed to go to hospital. What should I do?

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The short explanation

A condom left inside the vagina cannot travel into the womb or get lost in the body; the cervix at the top of the vagina is too small for it to pass through. Often you can reach it by squatting, bearing down gently as if passing stool, and feeling inside with clean fingers. If you cannot reach it, a doctor or nurse can remove it in a few minutes with a simple examination. They do this routinely and will not judge you. There is a second important point. If the condom came off during sex, there is a chance of pregnancy and of infection passing between partners. Emergency contraception works best the sooner it is used, so if you do not want to become pregnant, ask a pharmacist or doctor about it as soon as possible.

What depends on your situation

The parts of this that change from woman to woman. Uncertainty is stated, not hidden.

  • Leaving a condom inside for days can cause a bad-smelling discharge and infection, so it is better removed soon.
  • If you or your partner have not been tested for sexually transmitted infections, this may be a good time to ask.
  • Using the right condom size and holding the base when withdrawing helps prevent this happening again.

What this answer cannot determine

The boundary of online education. These need a clinician who can see you.

  • This cannot tell you whether the condom is still inside or whether there is a risk of pregnancy or infection in your case. A clinician can check and advise.

Questions for your clinician

Take these with you. You can add any of them to an appointment card.

  1. Is the condom fully removed?
  2. Do I need emergency contraception?
  3. Should either of us be tested for infections?
  4. How can we stop this happening again?

When to seek help

Clinician-approved guidance for this topic. When in doubt, being seen is never the wrong choice.

Get help the same day

  • Get care the same day if you cannot remove the condom, or to discuss emergency contraception as early as possible.

Book an appointment soon

  • See a clinician within a few days if you develop a bad-smelling discharge or pain.

Sources

The evidence this explanation is built on.

  1. Vaginal discharge NHS
  2. Vaginal diseases MedlinePlus (NIH)

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